We have looked how recognition of association works and now it is time to put it in practice.

Connection in life is so important, connecting to others can get you love, friendship, happiness, a job, anything. But what is connection?

Connection can be three things.

1) The sexual / visual connection, easy, it’s exactly what it is.

2) I like to call the spiritual connection or the ‘mojo’, you don’t know why two persons connect so well, even if nothing in common, even if not that sexually attracted. There is this connection with the **Aura’s** are so compatable that is just feels greats being in each others space.

3) This is something we can learn and become better at to help in all areas – that is the recognition of association. For example, you are at a dinner party, everyone invited are working in the area of quantum physics. Now I don’t know about you but my knowledge on quantum physics is limited. This does not mean I have to sit in a corner with a drink wondering when the best moment is to slip out. No, you can join in the conversation and believe that what you are saying is real and worthy to be heard by others around you.

We have such a massive memory bank within us, so much junk that we picked up here and there. In most cases and in most conversations you can scan over some sort of recognition of association memory, be it something you read in a magazine even a sentence in a movie, it does not matter because you have some ‘data’ and now it is a matter of applying it to the conversation where best applies the most power.

The phrase  ’jack of all trades, master of none’ is the best way to explain this process. It is better to have some knowledge of a wide spectrum of…life, than a lot of a little.

By having this tool, you can connect with many through recognition of association, basically you have something in common and that is normally the building blocks to a friendship, love, getting help with things….a person is ten times more likely to help someone if they can see just even a little bit of themselves in them.

It does not mean you have to learn as such, it is more just be aware of the conversations. Be true, be real, break down facades and if you have read something in a magazine and you want to bring it in to a conversation, then be honest…say ‘I read once in a magazine that the…….’ and then at the end give what your opnion on the information you read, what you like or don’t and leave it open for anyone to reply. What all this does is also make conversations flow, when conversations flow people relax and open up more and will start to let their guard down, this will help the continuation of the flow and the possabilities to making good contacts and more.

Recognition of association stems from something that you have either experienced, something you have seen or read or heard, have associated that to part of an experience in which you recognise the similarity to make the understanding tangible.

I will give you an example, I personally have experienced contact with negative ‘spirit’ energies…aka ghosts. I now still have contact with posistive energies…aka guides, angels etc… Now I want you to catch what you are thinking when you read that sentence, what was it? Belief? Curious? It’s rubbish?

It is important to catch your thinking as how you react tells a lot about who you are and what kind of life you live. If you read the sentence and saw it as rubbish then the chances are you probably have never had an experience on a spiritual level (not talking about religion), maybe also heard stories which came across as very far fetched probably from non reliable sources. Fair enough, there is nothing wrong with anyones view on anything, all I say is see how you react. The one who see’s the sentence as rubbish already stopped reading intently during the sentence, for the recognition of association says ‘ah this rubbish!’ connects it to a previous image of experience recognition, links it to your conclusion you have made previous in this subject matter…and the result is you squash dead any further interaction to the subject.

Not to point out just a ‘non believer’ I will take the believer for example. If I ever talk to anyone about my spiritual experiences and receive a reply like ‘I believe you’. The first thing I say is ‘why, what have you experienced!’. 9 times out of ten the person tells me a story of an experience. So this person already has recognition of association, he/she can link my experience story with part of one of his/her own.

Our minds NEED back up, every conversation we have eg. If someone says the word ‘Holiday’, you are listening further in the conversation but the mind shot to an image of a previous good (or bad) experience of a holiday you had…and all this happens for a split second.

In my next post will tell you this can really help you in work, love, friendship and everyday contact.

A spot of physics for you…for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Take to stones, one weighs 1 kilo (stone A) the other 2 kilos (stone B), we can state clearly that stone B is twice as heavy as stone B. If the same force is applied to both and collision occurs between these two stones, you will have an equal and opposite reaction. Stone A will rebound twice as far as stone B.

Now, Lets take this little physics lesson into a life situation…A Relationship. Let’s say Stone A is about to be ‘dumped’ by stone B …the ‘Dumper’. The dumper being the stone of 2 kilos will not have as heavy a reaction from this ‘collision’ that takes place. Why?? Because the ‘dumper’ has weight…has I ‘information’, he/she already knows what he/she about to do, dump stone A. This of course comes as a shock to Stone A ‘the Dumped’ as it is new information so the reaction is greater.

Through this experience, both ‘stones / persons’ have learn’t a valuable lesson, they have become a bit wiser in the area of relationships but they do not fully understand. Only when the roles become reversed and so therefore stone A becomes 2 kilos and stone B 1 kilo and the action/reaction occurs. The stones / persons will now have the experience of being ‘dumped and a dumper’. Only now can they truly understand the learning from an experience.

TO EXPERIENCE SOMETHING IS TO LEARN A LESSON, LESSON THAT IS USUALLY IMPORTANT TO WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN NEXT. THESE LESSONS ARE LEARN’T TO ULTIMATELY AND EVENTUALLY BE A GUIDE AND A HELP TO ANOTHER.

Everyone of us have experienced terrible things in the past, on all levels some more than others, some may feel it constant. I ask you to stop and think, are you predominantly a positive thinker or a negative thinker? If you want to feel a change you have to change your mindset, you have to force yourself to see something, anything positive in the most horrible of experience because there is one. You always learn the lesson at the end of an experience, so if you are in the middle of one be aware of it and embrace. The more you are aware of it (without a negative mind) the more you are able to pick up the signs and feel more where you are and what FEEL you need to do next. This will lighten and quicken this downside while still learning the experience fully.

Every experience we face is part of a complicated set up of your life, you need A to get to B to be at place A to gain C and D, and so forth. But now I am going to complicate it further. You experiences do not start in this life, it is a pattern of experiences and learning through hundreds of human lives that you have lived. You hold the answer to SO MUCH! It is all a matter of opening to it and if you truly would like to help yourself instead of us constantly looking for external help. Then start by stepping back from this incredibly linear world we live in, it is the most distracting and destructive part of us as we allow our mind to rule fully, our feeling comes second to what our mind says. Our minds absorbs thought energy (previous blog posting) just as much as we produce it. Our minds give host to negative thoughts of others, ego, greed, looking out for ‘number one’. Our minds are like computers, no feeling just processes. Everything and I mean EVERYTHING is based on ‘RECOGNITION OF ASSOCIATION’. Simply, if I say the word ‘mother’, you wil recognise that with your mother first and for most, therefore one can say you can easily recognise yourself with the word as you can associate it with something in your life or something in the past. When you don’t have recognition and you can’t associate with a subject or a word, you mind will rack the memory banks, if it comes up empty, the automatic reply is doubt, dubious, no belief and instead of be open to see possibly what it could be …we squash it, close the door, dead. ‘That’ is where we can make a choice, explore the possiblity of possiblity, rather than negativity.

Right now you may induldged into what I am writing, some parts make sense while other parts you can not accept, that is perfectly fine, no one is asking you to believe, it is just one man’s perspective through my own experiences. What ever you feel you are now here…now…inwardly digesting on your level, that is great, until you have read it all lean’t back, thought about it for a while, may pop to the other room, watch a bit of TV or start thinking about tomorrow, work, start skyping with someone. What ever it may be, you WILL fall directly back into your role and pattern in life. How many people buy themselves something when you feel down? How many people push themselves further into work or something to over occupy their minds when they experiencing something heavy? Does it work? Yes it does…temporarily but you know, somewhere along the line you will have to face it and it will be harder than if you were to face it originally.

This understanding above is why our negative experiences are felt with such heaviness, because we try our upmost best to shadow the fact we going through it with every form of linear type activity to feel better. The only way to really deal with it, shorten the experience and not so heavy, is to face and embrace it head on, with a positive mind and with self confidence that you are always stronger than ANYTHING that comes in your path (don’t think literal / linear).

Some of you may be saying..’yes but I have no self confidence’ or ‘I can’t think positive’, and my answer is brutal but true…RUBBISH! It is all a story, somewhere, sometime with some experience in your past…you made a choice, you subconciously said …’I don’t like what just happened and from now on I will be like this so that it won’t happen again’.

It is such a cliché sentence but it is so true…’the world IS you oyster’.

There are two things you can be sure of in life, you’re born and you will die. You will find yourself in certain places at certain times in your life, which have been ‘guided’ for you to experience something. Guided meaning your guardian / spirit guide, what ever you feel comfortable with. From my experiences, they are there, very very much so and thank goodness they are otherwise we as human beings would be in a lot more mess than we already are. I can also tell you, having contact with your guide is amazing, truly beautiful. You know the feeling of unconditional love between mother and child?…times that feeling by ten and you are getting close to how it feels. I have been through hell to get to where I am today, but I am now able to look back at these heavy experiences and say ‘thank you’, for if I had not gone through it, I would not feel what I feel today, and trust me when I say where I am today…I wish I am able to spread the light and enlightenment to all…just like that, with a click of a finger. But unfortunately I can’t, because we are all living separate lives, at different places on their own path, having to experience different things to move to the next step. All I can do is just be me, live my life with love, compassion for all, with dignity, humble and positive, this alone can help others I meet along my path.

I am aware there is a lot of information to take in above and if you take one word, a sentence or the whole thing, I do hope and wish the upmost best, light and positive for everyone, every single person, no matter what they have done. Even a murderer, a multiple murderer even the likes of Osama Bin Laden…why? How can you even say that? Some of you might say.

In a previous blog posting I spoke about thought energy (it is explained more deeply there), with the understanding that thought is energy and energy is everything, you chose, just with your thoughts alone whether to fill this world with negative of positive energy. Obviously Osama bin Laden is surrounded by a very negative energy, but he can’t be blamed fully, he made a choice, he has read and interpreted the Koran which is a good book just like the bible, and made his own understanding of it, though the influence of negativity. I you meet a good / positive minded person who is a Muslim, they will give the shirt off their back, truly beautiful people, just like you meet a good / positive minded person who is a catholic, they too will do the same, again truly beautiful. The power of these books is not the words as such, it is what the words mean to the person who is reading it. The same sentence can have a very very different meaning to positive minded person than to a negative minded person. This is no ones fault, it is purely how a person tries in their own way to make sense of life, of their life. A negative minded person is only a person who has suffered and struggled and chose path of darkness as it seemed to make sense. All that path does is to give a purpose but with much more pain, but how far would go or sacrifice for your belief or your purpose to life??

I have plenty to write but I am still in the office on a Monday night at 8pm – time to leave and enjoy my purpose to life

Thank you for reading, hope no one is offended by what I wrote, remember it is written with unconditional love to all, there to allow you to carry on to build your own understanding to life, one that has most meaning to you and what you believe. Just remember you have a choice always, try and make them good ones for you will truly see the world in a different light.